Next
week Michelle and I are off again to our annual Pastor's Conference in
Banff. It is always a restful and encouraging time and we both consider
it a double blessing to be sent each year. We have to "suffer" by
staying at the Banff Springs Hotel! For 3 of the supper time meals we
all gather is a large room and are served delicious meals by the ever
attentive staff. It is quite the production! First, the staff come
bursting through the door carrying 5 or 6 covered trays (each tray has, I
think, 5 or 6 plates of food on them) which they carefully set down on
their serving tables... and then the staff grab the individual plates
and distribute them to the masses and hungry pastors and spouses who are
drooling while waiting at their tables. This process happens three
separate times...for the appetizer, main course, and the dessert. Each
step is carefully coordinated by the head waiter (he might be called the
maitre d'.. but we're not sure) and, prior to that, the kitchen staff
has managed to prepare the entire meal behind the scenes, prepping the
food, organizing the special meals (for folks with allergies) and having
each plate look....and taste like it was specially made for us.
I'm hungry now.
At the heart of this whole experience is
an attitude that has been drummed in to each member of the staff... that
they are there to serve us. Frankly, for us pastors we get a little
uncomfortable with all the fuss because, usually, we're the ones doing
the serving. Real leadership is serving. That's what Jesus taught us.
Each member of the hotel is, in fact, emulating Jesus when they serve
us. They may not know it (yet), but they are! And each year we have our
socks blessed off by the men and women who serve us. Many of them are
young people working in Banff from around the country and around the
globe. Many others of "lifers" who have made a career out of serving
others. Regardless of their background or rank, their job is to serve.
Now, imagine for a minute if every church member decided to serve
others each week? What would Sundays look like? What would the rest of
the week look like? I'm pretty sure we'd have socks lying all over the
place!
If you want to be great in God's kingdom, learn to be the servant of all.
Joell
PS. Bread plate is to the left. Water glass is to the right. Use utensils from the outside in. :)
Thursday, October 31, 2013
Thursday, October 24, 2013
Stereotypes
Ah,
stereotypes. We love to use them on others and hate to have them used
on us! A way to find out what stereotypes are out there is to use
google to let you see what others have asked it. (See here).
We all have stereotypes. We often lump very large groups of people
into "types" without realizing it. Canadians do it to Americans. Rider
fans do it to Eskimos fans. Baptists do it to Catholics. Jews did it
to Samaritans.
On at least three different occasions, Jesus broke down the cultural stereotypes that the much hated Samaritans had for the Jews. The woman at the well, the Good Samaritan, and the healed Samaritan leper. The Good Samaritan was a parable which, no doubt, ruffled some Jewish feathers since the Samaritan was the hero of the story. The other two were real people, and Jesus treated them as...well... real people. And that's the tip off of what's wrong with stereotypes. They can paint someone with a broad brush that has nothing to do with them personally. Jesus dealt with the real people as persons...and individuals... and cool stuff happened.
So, next time you cross paths with someone from "another group" of whatever kind it may be...get to know them as a person and place those stereotypes on the back burner where they belong.
On at least three different occasions, Jesus broke down the cultural stereotypes that the much hated Samaritans had for the Jews. The woman at the well, the Good Samaritan, and the healed Samaritan leper. The Good Samaritan was a parable which, no doubt, ruffled some Jewish feathers since the Samaritan was the hero of the story. The other two were real people, and Jesus treated them as...well... real people. And that's the tip off of what's wrong with stereotypes. They can paint someone with a broad brush that has nothing to do with them personally. Jesus dealt with the real people as persons...and individuals... and cool stuff happened.
So, next time you cross paths with someone from "another group" of whatever kind it may be...get to know them as a person and place those stereotypes on the back burner where they belong.
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